I NEED
A
HUSBAND!
Every woman needs a husband. An ideal husband. This is her desire and expectation. She needs an ideal companion. The one with whom she we live joyfully till good old age. Any quality short of ideal is far too low for her. She needs a husband who is highly responsible, who can stand as the head of the family. She needs a husband who is able to lead successfully and tenderly the wife and children such that they will recognize his position, respect and honour him and care for one another unreservedly.
She needs a husband who can easily take decision for the family because he is knowledgeable both in spiritual and secular affairs. He knows the best decision to take on behalf of the family that will really benefit his wife, children and self. The kind of husband the woman wants is one who will not abdicate his responsibilities and expect his wife to play the role of the husband.
Her expectation from her husband is that he should:
q Be a partner indeed and gainfully employed.
q Be loving and caring.
q Be wise in communication.
q Be reliable, realistic and considerate.
q Be ready to please her in all things.
q Be able to patiently study conduct, lifestyle, habits and make adjustments where necessary.
q B studious and knowledgeable.
q Be diligent and hardworking, not lazy.
q Be cheerful not moody.
q Be a generous giver, sometimes giving her surprise gifts.
q Be prayerful, waiting on the Lord, respecting and honouring God and leading other members of the family in doing same.
q Be reading at all times to defend and protect her dignity and personality in the presence of visitors, in-laws, friends and outsider.
q Be appreciative of all her efforts. Learn to say nice things such as “thank you” “I appreciate you” “I love you” “God bless you”.
q Be committed and faithful to the marriage vows for life, leaving and cleaving to his wife only.
q Be available to hear her discussion.
q Be patient with her even when she offends.
q Be filled with forgiving spirit and not retaliating or revengeful.
q Be holy in conscience.
q Humble enough to admit his faults and apologise.
With all these qualities fulfilled in the husband, the wife will be happy and great shall be the joy in the family.
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