Everyone knows that good sex requires a generous dose of dedication and attention. Every woman needs time, touch and talk. But All we want is a little romance… what we get instead is real life. Great sex doesn’t just happen. No, romance in real life is characterized by misunderstandings, missed signals, overdue bills and overzealous expectations. Real life is making love to a man who wears his black dress socks to bed.
Ask what you Need in the Bedroom…Did Cinderalla make things easy for the prince by giving him her address or even her name? Of course not.
Did sleeping beauty leave written instruction by the side of the bed: “ To awaken princess, kiss once”No way.
Did Juliet alert Romeo to the fact that the poison she consumed was, indeed, temporary and that he was supposed to cool his heels and wait for her to regain consciousness so they could live together forever? Not a chance.
I believe there are four myths that discourage many women from being more verbal about their sexual needs and desires. They hinder us from being honest in the bedroom and help foster our expectations that our man can and should know instinctively.
· Men are omniscient
· Boys will be boys
· Woman don’t have needs…sexual or otherwise
· Nice woman don’t talk about sex
A woman said her husband idea of foreplay was the time it took to lock the bedroom door.
The truth is that man are not omniscient.
Men are not fragile
Nice woman need sex too
Communication in the bedroom is the key
For the married or about –to-be married, “Pillow talk” is what you need. Brimming with humor and tongue in check observation.
· Ask for what you need in the bedroom
· Beat the bedroom blues
· Celebrate your sexuality
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