Wedding Advice For The Married And Newly wed

                                                           WEDDING ADVICE…


1.  Duck and weave.
2.  Keep your feet warm.
3. Don’t leave hair in the sink.
4. Don’t clear your throat or spit in front of your mate.
5. Never eat breakfast in rollers.
Give your wife all the credit…just make sure you keep the cash.

They can help guard your marriage against the barrage of divisions, distractions, and temptations that you and your husband face, no doubt, on daily basis.

Guard your thoughts and words:
 Make a conscious effort to wield your words and thought’s as tools to protect and fortify your marriage and your husband, rather that destroy and tear down. Our thought determine our attitudes and actions. Words do hurt.

Undergrid your marriage with prayer:
Couples that pray together stay together. Pray with your spouse. Pray for your spouse. Pray for a strong and godly marriage. I promise you that your prayers will be heard. How can I say that? According to 1 john5: 14-15: “this is the assurance we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. And if we know that he hears us, whatever we ask, we know that have what we asked of him”.

Assess your marriage frequently:
 There are few guarantees in life, but one of them is that from time to time you and your husband are going to drift apart on the sea of love. How can you tell when these happens? Well you might be drifting when you plan a dinner party for your closest friends and discover you’ve forgotten to invite your spouse. Or when you turn on the radio, hear the first few bars of “you’ve lost that loving feeling,” and catch yourself saying, “hey, honey! They’re playing our song!” Or when your anniversary rolls around and both of you forget. What are the symptoms clue?Emotions,isolated,stressed
Out,distracted,maintaining separate bedtimes,illness,work,familiarity,
Boredom, children.. The key is in knowing what to do when it happens.

Relinquish small hurts:
Misunderstanding, hurt feelings, insensitive remarks or actions are inevitable. How can we avoid small hurts and wounds? Below are sampling.
1.Learn how to see the humor in life.
2.If I’m hurt I tell myself to forget it and go on.
3.Approaching your spouse asking him if there’s anything I’ve done, knowingly or diminished in some way.
4.No marriage is perfect. No individual is perfect.
5.Let resentment build in silence.

Defy the odds:
 Out of a dozens married couples, four end up in divorce lawyer, six stay together without love for the sake of children, careers, religion belief and only two couples enjoy an intimate and happy marriage life. We can defy the odds. All we desire in our marriages are emotional intimacy, soul-to-soul bonding, companionship, romance and …admit it. Non of these things happen by accident. It takes two for marriage to work and only one for it to collapse. Fight for your marriage.